Just a Fan
I really appreciate what you're saying, however especially with the price of attending races and the distance and cost to travel to F1 events is a huge roadblock for many people.
Many of the people you complain about have held a love for F1 for years or in my case 5 decades, and so can't just stand and watch what they hold dear sliding, in their eyes, downhill silently.
Do they or I have all the answers? Certainly not. Are some of their or my proposals silly or even ignorant in some others eyes? Probably. Is their tone of simply whining old and irritating? Often it is.
But the same as a person will try to offer well intentioned advice to a friend they see becoming an addict or doing harmful things to themselves they feel they must speak up.