100% agreed. I find it weird that they are taking this stance.
However, with the rear wing flex, they were seeing many failures, so there was greater impetus to ban them (also, since it's a rear wing, when it fails you might not notice right away, like Firman's shunt at Suzuka into Spoon Curve). With this wing, there has been one failure in practice (Vettel @ Silverstone), and it's easy for the driver to lift/brake when they see it fail, so it's less dangerous.
Still, they have rules in place so they can at least attempt to enforce the spirit... and I know some scrutineers will say "I don't like this, but I'll let you run this race with it... just don't show up next weekend with this wing". Maybe Charlie doesn't play that way.