Let's be clear though - there is no reason based on your conversations with moderation team that prevents your taking the ball home, which is surely your right to do, but it is not caused by, or triggered by moderation action.
The provision of server was noted, as you well know, as a positive thing and in support of the forum.
My personal view - it's been a good thing indeed for some of us to use the server you've provided - I can surely recognise that everyone was really impressed by your sharing that resource. Having a mardy about it and removing that from the guys on here smacks of a childish response. Discussing issues with the mod team is not related to AC is it?
Perhaps the forum can identify and use another open server for some driving/racing together - it is a good crack,