MV was not too agressive in any race (imho) bar Singapore and Brazil ( I think you are referring to?). Those where the only moments where he tried something that failed this year.
Singapore you cannot overtake (between similarly paced cars) due to a team mistake (underfueling) instead of starting from pole he had to start from P10. He overtook everybody up to Lando (who in Signapore, for the speed difference needed there) had a similarly paced (in Lando's hand that is, he is very fast imho) car, there was 1 opportunity to take him (at the restart) and then maybe, just maybe, on tire strategy still win the race.
Max went for it, as he hoped to keep the chances of the 9 win streak open and failed. No crash, just back to the back and try again. If he needed to maximize points he probably would have stayed behind Lando (I hope
) but he didn't need to maximize points (championship was all but sealed), he needed to win the race. For me it was a fair attempt and not overly aggressive.
Lewis f.e. waited behind Sainz all race and his one try ended in the barriere. Too aggressive?
The other example, Brazil, where they didnt get the car set-up right, Max already said it during FP1 and then you are stuck in a sprint weekend. In any case, even with that he had the better restart then Lewis and then imho you should be allowed to give it a try, he was alongside Lewis. Is that too aggressive? He had the better restart.
Schumacher in his Mercedes and Kimi in the Lotus had exactly similar carbon copy move and Schumacher let Kimi the room on the inside of turn 2. Lewis did not with Max. I was very disappointed with that penalty. No need to re discuss that here but just I feel that those 2 moments were not overly aggressive, both moments warranted a move is my point.