My sister and I have finally convinced my mom that her Chevy Tracker is a death trap owing to its high center of gravity, rear-wheel drive, and short wheelbase. My sister had to (accidentally) go through an intersection half-sideways in the rain with her baby-sitting charges before my mom was convinced. I've since shown my sister what she did wrong (too much gas, wonder where she learned that ) but the point is that my mom wouldn't sacrifice being that high off the road unless she had 4WD. I said fair enough, there's plenty of good 4WD cars or wagons out there.
The problem is that whenever I mention an option, my dad says it's too expensive to maintain.
My first pick was the E30 325ix, but with me (and my parts car) 10 hours away for 11 months of the year the car wouldn't get maintained properly.
So I said late 90's A4? Too expensive to maintain.
Subie? Too expensive to maintain.
Mazda 6? Too expensive to maintain.
Suzuki SX4? They make cars now (lol)? Too new, out of their price range.
So, I'm asking the internet's experts on virtually everything,
What's the best 4wd car or wagon that can be had for little upfront and isn't expensive to maintain?
Facts and opinions welcome. Thanks.
PS Has to be an automatic (I know). No mopars.