Sounds like you got a few things wrong.
Also, the higher distance between the cars creating a larger slipstream is great
It doesn't create higher slipstream you can use it longer before you crash into the leader.
You will see this affect at low downforce tracks, especially Monza, where there is lots of overtaking because the cars can run closer. Then you look at Hungary, could Vettel overtake Alonso? No. Even though his car was almost a second quicker a lap. If he was able to run closer to him throughout the lap, I'm sure he would of put a passing move on him by running one up the inside.
Vettel was able to run very close to Alonso. Much closer than on the video I posted. Just watch it. Vettel was a second quicker because he was faster during corners.
Close running alone doesn’t help anything. For overtaking you need a speed overrun.
Vettel could not overtake because Ferrari had higher speed on the straights. Not necessary higher top speed they just gain their speed quicker or at least equally fast. A slipstream effect for Vettel was almost not there. I can just say it again watch carefully the video. Both cars had same speed otherwise they would not overtake several times each other. The leader simply has no chance to protect. And this straight in Hungary is a very short one.
but the most important thing is breaking.
The cars have all more or less the same braking abilities. There is nothing to gain. Only to lose when you have to brake on the dirt. Braking definitely doesn’t help on overtaking. Cars need to be side to side first to even think about a working overtaking manoeuvre.