My assessment - Michelin didn't have an appropriate duty cycle file before the race for what was going to be seen on track. They did their durability work to what was an incorrect projection of a lap at the track, and it caught them out. That they could recreate the failures on a lab durability machine afterward, using DAQ, I think points pretty clearly to this. Takes away that grooving having anything to do with it, or any "resonance" or other malarkey with the suspension, etc. Durability machines are not exceedingly dynamic or exciting anyway.
Tire failures in general generally aren't that complicated. Too much quasi-steady state load, leads to too much heat and/or strain... and pop. That or a cut down anyway. Not to say they don't happen - but I've never heard of or seen a "resonance" failure in a tire. Nor have I seen it really at all, failure or not, with the exception of noise. Don't think the Michelin tires failed from being too loud for their own good.
That said, I'm not going to turn this into a pissing contest any more than it already is. At the end of the day, I have my assessment and you have your theory. From working as a tire engineer and having had discussions with engineers working in F1 at the time - I'm pretty confident in mine.
The more interesting thing is why they didn't have an appropriate load trace to test with beforehand... and that's something I won't get into further, with the things I've heard or with speculation.