I'm on shaky ground here as i am not an aero guy, but Kilcoo, the AoA does reduce at high speeds on the front wing as can be seen on the nose camera shots; the trailing edge (of all the teams I have seen) definitely bends as the speed increases, thereby reducing drag (and d/f).
I recognise that the challenges of stalling the diffuser at high speeds and asking it to work perfectly at low sppeds is technologicall challenging. However, some (presumably knowledgeable people) in F1 are suggesting that at least one team is doing this, so irrespective of how difficult it may be I would suggest that it is not impossible, just rather difficult to do.
I certainly am not qualified to say whether it is being done, or whether it works in practice. Furthermore, I think you make a good point kilcoo that you would not want to lose d/f in a fast corner, but conceptually it is rather intriguing - I'd like to see the evidence for it working (e.g. suddenly see the rear suspension lifting along the back straight on some of the rearward facing cameras).
carry on techies... !