You know, I am getting a little bit sick of Mr M's masochistic tendencies being used as evidence of him being mentally disturbed.
I would like to dispel a myth here : S & M
is not sex ... sure, the two CAN be intertwined under the right circumstances, however they are separate things and can only really be linked through the term "sensation play". In the majority of cases, someone who is submitting within that context would never dream of attempting a sexual encounter with the person dominating them. It just doesn't work that way outside of the Anne Summers world of fluffy handcuffs and badly made PVC nurse uniforms.
I seen many public figures at fetish events such as the world-famous TortureGarden (yes, Max and I have something in common there, though I wouldn't touch a fascist's uniform with a bargepole) and what you choose to do with your body in private has no bearing upon your suitability for office ... the public perception of your actions when details are leaked into the public domain is an entirely different matter, which is why cameras are banned at torturegarden.
Even though I am not averse to a little S & M in my private life, I was happy when the Spanky-Nazi scandal broke; not because I thought there was anything inherently wrong with him paying to get beaten by women in uniforms (although the fascist roleplay element is incredibly distasteful), but because I had loathed the man, his policies and his management style since the late 90s.
Strangely enough, I met the person who outed Max whilst at a London Fetish club at the end of May; considering that discretion and trust are a fundamental cornerstone of the whole scene, I found myself repulsed by their conduct more than Max's. I am not going to give any further details of that encounter though, as I am many things, but I try to avoid being a hypocrite.
These things are neither as rare, nor as scandalous as people like to make out; I have known many professional dominatrices (though I have never paid for such services) and their clientelle is usually composed of highly paid businessmen, public officials and people who work in high pressure environments.
The key here is control - when you spend your whole life having to control everything around you, sometimes it is nice to be made to feel helpless.
Likewise, those who spend their lives at the bottom of the heap will often find a great psychological release when another person is willing to submit to their will completely.
These responses, when they aren't taken to extremes, aren't a sign of a damaged psychology; they are an indication that an individual is well enough attuned to find a release before the pressures become damaging in themselves.
DAMN : I've been wanting to let that rant out for some time.
Now I feel really dirty for sticking up for Max