Two separate major problems have occurred this season. First is the inconsistency regarding stewarding. The second is breaking of the sporting code by organization that is suppose to be enforcing it.
The first is a problem in itself, but of lesser importance, since no amount of additional rules would ever produce "absolutely consistent" results.
The second one however is a major issue. It is quite clear that "overriding authority over the use of the safety car" means the authority when to use the safety car, not the actual procedure how safety car is deployed. Its like in football, there are some rules that specify what action warrants a penalty, but it will always be at the referees discretion to decide for the penalty or not. But once a penalty is called, there is no more room for interpretation of how it needs to be executed, meaning, the ball has to be placed at the specific location, the goalkeeper has to stay behind the goal line... Those are not open for interpretation.
That's why all this has been sickening. It would have been sickening if it was reversed between Hamilton and Max.
For the people that cheer for Max, he is a fully deserving champion, most people do not question that. But standing here and saying that this kind of behavior by the FIA is OK just because it helped your driver is strange to say the least.