That you interpret a request for more introspection as an insult is rather telling I would say.
There's a good reason I decided not to address anyone personally, as there are plenty on 'both sides' who do show introspection and are not (and do not need to feel) addressed by this, and as I have no intention of highlighting any individual behavior. Still, it is a pattern of behavior I notice with a number of people and I think it deserves to be mentioned as it affects the discussion. I hope those that fit the bill are willing to think a little bit about it, rather than considering themselves under attack right away.