I would argue that it is not Pirelli's job to go to the FIA and say "Hey man, they are using my tires incorrectly." Firstly because you need to investigate how every team is "using" the tires and secondly because even if they did know how teams were using them incorrectly, they couldnt pinpoint one team.
"Redbull is running left hand tires on the right hand side, they are running crazy camber angles, and they are running them at a dangerously low pressure Mr FIA. A tire may spontaneously explode....maybe."
That WOULD NEVER go over well. Redbull would cry foul about Pirelli leaking their secrets.
IF teams are using the tires in a incorrect (read, dangerous) manner, then it is their fault and ONLY their fault. Pirelli can provide optimum pressure levels as well as camber degrees, as well as marking the damn things LEFT and RIGHT. IF the teams disregard all these factors, and tires start a poppin, it's their own fault, and usually to their own detriment...unless someone gets hit in the head with debris...but i'd still argue that it is the teams fault for running their car in a unsafe manner.
I agree with you in the juristical view. The teams can do what they want with the products they purchase. But, there is also the other side of the story. I still do not believe that Pirelli intended to take any risk during the development of these tires. But I do think that the characteristics ordered by their customer (FiA) combined with the usage by the individual teams, trying to find an advantage, lead to the issue(s). And as soon as Pirelli saw this, it is their
moral responsibility (yeah, I went there!) to take actions to insure the safety of their product. Nobody else had this overview, so nobody else could do so. But they instead tried to cover their a$$es by 1) not calling it a safety issue and 2) not bringing all the information to the right people to force rules for usage of their product. Every team has a Pirelli rep in the pits - make it their job to check the air pressure and usage during pit stops, and have them inform Charlie W. if for instance a team swaps left & right. That car could then be sent to the pits, or punished after the race for risking the lives of the other drivers.
OK, I admit it - I hate it when people don't just take responsibility for a problem [staring at the whole F1 circus at this point].
“Strange women lying in ponds distributing swords is no basis for a system of government. Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the masses, not from some farcical aquatic ceremony!” Monty Python and the Holy Grail